Atty. Thomas Metsky Kretchmar

Atty. Thomas Metsky Kretchmar

Tom handles cases in all areas of family law, both inside and outside of the courtroom. While he believes that calculated aggressiveness is often essential to efficiently resolving family law disputes, a hallmark of Tom’s practice is his talent for identifying creative settlement solutions to issues that appear to be at an unsolvable impasse.

New York New York 17 yrs experience 17 year
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About Thomas Metsky Kretchmar at a glance

Thomas Metsky Kretchmar is a Partner based in New York, New York, practicing at Aronson Mayefsky & Sloan, LLP. They have 17+ years of legal experience, licensed to practice since 2009. Their practice focuses on family law. Admitted to practice in New York (2009). Educated at Emory University School of Law (J.D., 2008) and University of Pennsylvania (B.A., 2000). Serands clients in New York, NY and the surrounding metropolitan area.

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  • Tom handles cases in all areas of family law, both inside and outside of the courtroom
  • While he believes that calculated aggressiveness is often essential to efficiently resolving family law disputes, a hallmark of Tom’s practice is his talent for identifying creative settlement solutions to issues that appear to be at an unsolvable impasse
  • Prior to entering the field of family law, Tom practiced private equity and hedge fund law at Weil Gotshal & Manges LLP and Proskauer Rose LLP, and prior to his law career, he worked in finance and private clients asset management
  • This professional background provides him with a unique and powerful skill set for understanding and negotiating complex financial portfolios
  • In connection with his work as a family law attorney, Tom has been featured in journalism and programming from The New York Times, Town & Country, New York Magazine, Harper’s Bazaar, Elle, The Guardian, The New York Post, The Awl, Artnet, the Brooklyn Academy of Music, and other publications and institutions
  • He has also served as a divorce law consultant to multiple television shows
  • Tom received his law degree from Emory University School of Law, where he won the Henry Quilliam Prize for outstanding achievement in contracts and commercial law
  • He earned his undergraduate degree from the University of Pennsylvania, where he won the Elizabeth F. Flower Prize for best undergraduate paper in philosophy and was the second-slowest member of the men’s cycling team
  • Tom has served as a CLE lecturer for the New York State Bar Association’s Family Law Section, and is a member of its executive committee and co-chair of its social media committee
  • Outside of his law practice, Tom is a member and former co-chair of the Book Council of the National Book Foundation, a board member of Housing Works Bookstore Cafe, a committee member of the Friends of Citymeals, and a trustee and the former treasurer of the Philomathean Endowment Trust

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Each practice area below reflects the types of cases Thomas Metsky Kretchmar handles, with a brief overview of what that area of law covers.

Family Law

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Practicing law in New York. Legal matters in New York are governed by state-specific rules of civil and criminal procedure, statutes of limitations, and substantive law. Cases originating in New York are typically filed in the local municipal court or the appropriate New York state district court, depending on subject matter and amount in controversy. An attorney licensed in New York brings working knowledge of local procedural deadlines, judicial practices in this andnue, and the substantive law that applies to cases brought here. Out-of-state attorneys generally cannot represent clients in New York courts without local counsel or pro hac vice admission.

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Where is Thomas Metsky Kretchmar's law office located?
Thomas Metsky Kretchmar's law practice is located in New York, New York. The firm is Aronson Mayefsky & Sloan, LLP. You can contact the office directly through this profile page.
What practice areas does Thomas Metsky Kretchmar handle?
Thomas Metsky Kretchmar focuses on family law. Each practice area listed reflects experience handling cases of that type in New York.
How long has Thomas Metsky Kretchmar practiced law?
Thomas Metsky Kretchmar has 17+ years of legal experience and has been licensed since 2009.
Where did Thomas Metsky Kretchmar go to law school?
Thomas Metsky Kretchmar earned their education at (J.D., 2008); (B.A., 2000).
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Education

J.D.
Emory University School of Law
- 2008
B.A.
University of Pennsylvania
- 2000

Bar Admissions

New York
Admitted: 2009

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