Atty. Alan Rubenstein
Alan Rubenstein is a highly-skilled family lawyer, divorce mediator, and collaborative divorce attorney. He has practiced family and divorce law for more than 30 years.
Collaborative Law: Family Law & More Attorney · Serving Westport, CT
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About Alan Rubenstein at a Glance
Alan Rubenstein is a family law and adr attorney based in Westport, Connecticut, practicing at FLB Law PLLC. Admitted to practice in Connecticut, State of Connecticut, New York, State of New York, and District of Columbia, District of Columbia. Educated at Brooklyn Law School (JD, 1991) and San Francisco State University (—, 1983). Recognitions include Best Lawyers in America — Collaborative Law: Family Law (2026), Best Lawyers in America — Family Law (2026), and Best Lawyers in America — Family Law Arbitration (2026). Serves clients in Westport, CT and the surrounding metropolitan area.
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About Alan Rubenstein
- Alan Rubenstein is a highly-skilled family lawyer, divorce mediator, and collaborative divorce attorney
- He has practiced family and divorce law for more than 30 years
- He has served as counsel for approximately 1,200 divorces, involving more than 250 divorce mediations, 150 collaborative/cooperative divorces, and numerous hearings and trials
- A trained marriage and family counselor with a Master of Science in counseling psychology with a specialization in marriage and family therapy, Alan approaches divorce from a perspective that differentiates him from other divorce lawyers: He recognizes that divorce consists of “problems to be solved and not battles or a war to be fought.” He possesses a high degree of psychological awareness, which actively and constructively informs the attorney-client relationship and divorce process
- Alan strives to resolve divorces expeditiously, thoroughly, and efficiently
- His breadth of professional experience enables him to quickly recognize obstacles and determine a reasonable range of outcomes for each issue
- Once he obtains the necessary information to fully understand all of the divorce-related issues for the unique needs of the client, he works diligently to engage in efficient and effective settlement dialogue to affect an equitable, and forward-looking resolution of all matters
- While most divorces reach settlement, if that is not possible, Alan has the necessary trial experience, skill set, and tenacity to successfully advocate for his clients in the courtroom
- Alan keeps the divorce process moving forward to minimize his client’s legal fees and the stress and anxiety inherent in divorce
- He breaks down the divorce process into manageable, individual issues in the context of a global resolution that protects the interests of his clients and their families
- Alan’s reputation for thoroughness, fairness, integrity, and positive outcomes is the foundation of his family law practice
- He also serves as a special master in the Connecticut Superior Court and as a private special master and consultant
Practice Areas Explained
Alan Rubenstein's Areas of Legal Practice
Each practice area below reflects the types of cases Alan Rubenstein handles, with a practical overview of what that area of law involves and how it may apply to your situation in Westport.
Family Law in Westport
Family law attorneys handle divorce, child custody, child support, adoption, prenups, and protective orders. Find verified family lawyers near you.
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Mediation & Arbitration in Westport
Mediators and arbitrators for civil, commercial, family, and employment dispute resolution.
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Jurisdictional Context
Why Local Counsel Matters in Westport
Practicing law in Connecticut. Legal matters in Connecticut are governed by state-specific rules of civil and criminal procedure, statutes of limitations, and substantive law. Cases originating in Westport are typically filed in the local municipal court or the appropriate Connecticut state district court, depending on subject matter and amount in controversy. An attorney licensed in Connecticut brings working knowledge of local procedural deadlines, judicial practices in this venue, and the substantive law that applies to cases brought here. Out-of-state attorneys generally cannot represent clients in Connecticut courts without local counsel or pro hac vice admission.
Westport Courts and Legal Process
Choosing a Westport-based attorney means your counsel already knows the local docketing timelines, preferred filing formats, and how individual judges typically rule on procedural motions — details that only come from practicing in this jurisdiction day after day. That local familiarity can translate to better strategy, faster filings, and fewer costly surprises.
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Professional Profile
Why Clients in Westport Choose Alan Rubenstein
Selecting an attorney is one of the most consequential decisions you can make when a legal matter arises. Below are the core qualities that distinguish Alan Rubenstein's practice in the field of family law and adr.
Multi-State Bar Admission
Licensed in Connecticut, State of Connecticut, New York, State of New York, and District of Columbia, District of Columbia, Alan Rubenstein can represent clients in cases that span state lines or require counsel in multiple jurisdictions.
Broad Practice Area Coverage
Covering family law and adr, Alan Rubenstein can address the full spectrum of a client's legal needs without requiring referrals to separate specialists for each issue.
Local Presence in Westport
A Westport-based practice means Alan Rubenstein attends hearings in the same courthouses, knows the local clerks, and understands the unwritten scheduling norms that affect every case filed here.
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Common Legal Issues Alan Rubenstein Handles in Westport
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