What is the 10 year cancellation i have been usa in 13 years i have 3 kids usa citizen can i apply 10years cancellation

Those certainly are helpful facts but other requirements are a good moral character and we also don't know what your status is. You should talk in person with an immigration attorney to analyze your case carefully so you obtain a correct and helpful reply.

You also need to have a qualifying relative (USC/LPR spouse or parent) to qualify for cancellation of removal.

You must be in removal proceedings in order to apply.

This is not something you can request affirmatively. You would have to be in removal proceedings in order to apply for cancellation of removal. And even then, you will have to meet other requirements in order to be granted that kind of relief.