I believe my wife is ready to divorce me. I found a family lawyer biz card between her papers. What should I do on my end?

The fact that your wife may have consulted with an attorney does not necessarily mean she is starting a divorce case. The question is what do you want to do. If you also want a divorce, then go see an attorney. If not, then you will address this circumstance with your wife. If you are afraid financial records will disappear, then making copies of them before you speak with her, and while they are still available, is a good idea. If you get served with divorce papers, then obviously you will need to meet with an attorney in your area. If you are concerned she has obtained information which can be used to prepare for a divorce case, custody issue, etc..., and you want to do the same, then schedule an appointment with an attorney.

The thing to do on your end would be to start meeting with divorce lawyers to know your rights. For example, there may be custody/visitation issues, property/asset distribution issues, etc. Thus, you should call an Orange/Westchester Family Law attorney to schedule a consult.