I want my money back

I retained a new lawyer as my old lawyer was, I felt, incompetent. The last straw was my last court date. Previous to court starting, when I expected to talk to my lawyer, he went off to talk to my husband's lawyer. When the judge questioned why the case was taking so long my lawyer blamed me for the lack of momentum in the case. There were bills to be presented related to the case that were not presented in court nor afterwards. I was asked in court for paper work that I had turned in two months previous. After the judge left the courtroom, I overheard my lawyer making a joke about me with my husband's lawyer. I feel I was not represented in my best interest. There have been many other things such as not being able to reach my lawyer. I want a refund.