What should i do first when it comes to trying to obtain custody of my son.

If you are able, take pictures and collect written statements (e.g. text messages, e-mails, social media posts) from your son's mother. But most importantly, the first step to bringing a custody case is to hire a family law attorney.

The best thing to do is hire a family law attorney to help you. If you believe that the conditions are dangerous to the child consider making a hot line call to the DFS. Otherwise start making a list of potential witnesses (names, addresses, and phone numbers), preserving any documents (emails, texts, anything that might prove the conditions), take photos if you can do so. But most importantly hire an attorney to file for custody. You can use the find a lawyer tab or contact one of the attorney's who have answered your question. Make sure you get an attorney who is familiar with the jurisdiction that the suit will be brought in.

Hire an experienced family law attorney.