Parental Alienation ??

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Ex sent me a video and child a video from youtube that went viral of a small child asking the mother to stop the fighting and be friends with the father. To me this was a dig indirectly geared towards the mother saying look what your mom is doing ? Trying to make me look bad. He has discussed emails with child about things I wrote. I asked him to stop, he justified his answer that he only shared his feelings.

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Leonard Boyer ·
Leonard Roy Boyer 4.9130434782609 stars 69 reviews Rating: 9.1 Foreclosure Attorney in Clifton, NJ Reveal number tel: (973) 798-6131 Private message Call Message Profile Posted on Sep 30, 2015 I concur with the recommendation of my distinguished colleague, attorney Scott J. Newman. There is, unfortunately nothing you can do about this, at this point. There is nothing here to substantiate parental alienation. This type of occurrence is happening far more often in divorce and custody cases then you would believe. If you thing this is going to persist, just follow the advice of my colleague Mr. Newman. Good luck. If you found this Answer helpful, please mark it as "Best Answer" Please be advised that the answer above is only general in nature cannot be construed as legal advice, given that not enough facts are known. It is your responsibility to retain a lawyer to analyze the facts specific to your particular situation in order to give you specific advice. Specific answers will require cognizance of all pertinent facts about your case. Any answers offered on are of a general nature only, and are not meant to create an attorney-client relationship. More 0 found this answer helpful found this helpful | 1 lawyer agrees Undo Vote Helpful Undo Unhelpful Undo 0 comments
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Bari Weinberger ·
True alienation would not include the video being sent to you but there are things done with the child that the parent is not directly made aware of, which is why it is difficult to prove.
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Kelsey Mulholland 1606266.Html ·
Kelsey Dru Mulholland 5 stars 26 reviews Rating: 10 Domestic Violence Lawyer Reveal number tel: (973) 993-9960 Call Profile Posted on Sep 24, 2015 I agree with the posters above. I am not sure if what your ex did rises to the level of parental alienation. However, it is inappropriate for him to share emails between the two of you that were obviously meant for each other's eyes only. If his behavior starts to truly affect the relationship that you have with your child, then you may be able to make a claim of alienation that will stand in court. This answer does not constitute the establishment of an attorney/client relationship nor is there any guarantee that this advice will be completely effective in a court of law. A consultation, including review of court orders and other documents is necessary in order for me to give you proper advice and guidance. More 0 found this answer helpful found this helpful | 1 lawyer agrees Undo Vote Helpful Undo Unhelpful Undo 0 comments
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Catherine Ross 542436.Html ·
Catherine A Ross 4 stars 7 reviews Rating Not Displayed Divorce / Separation Lawyer Private message Message Profile Posted on Sep 24, 2015 Maybe he wasn't trying to make you look bad, but was trying to say, please stop fighting with me and be more pleasant in our interactions? And hoping your child would ask you to stop the fighting and be friends too. Each parent seeks to look good in the eyes of their child. Some parents don't understand appropriate boundaries and share adult matters with children. It's hard to tell exactly what is going on here. More 0 found this answer helpful found this helpful | 2 lawyers agree Undo Vote Helpful Undo Unhelpful Undo 0 comments
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cott J NewmanFamily Law AttorneyMarlton, NJ ·
Scott J Newman 5 stars 8 reviews Rating: 8.3 Family Law Attorney in Marlton, NJ Reveal number tel: (856) 985-7553 Private message Call Message Profile Posted on Sep 24, 2015 Not a lot you can do here. Parents tend to say what they want to the child about the child's other parent. Even if a Judge Orders each parent not to make disparaging remarks about the other, et al, it is virtually impossible to enforce this. The only thing I can recommend is that you keep a diary of what is going on, keep the emails and any other proofs. If this continues on, you can file a Motion and ask that your ex have to take a parenting class, or go to see a counselor, perhaps. There is no guarantee that a Judge would give you any relief in this matter. I understand your frustration, but unfortunately this is a very common situation. Hopefully, your child will see what a good parent you are and have his or her own opinion of you without it being colored by the other parent. Good luck to you. The foregoing answer is submitted for informational purposes, and is not intended as a specific answer to the question posed. Always consult with an attorney prior to signing any and all agreements. The firm of Newman & Ingemi, LLC does not represent you unless and until you enter into a signed Retainer Agreement with the firm. More 0 found this answer helpful found this helpful | 3 lawyers agree Undo Vote Helpful Undo Unhelpful Undo 0 comments
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