My husband was arrested this evening. how do I get a personal bond on a felony charge? or what do I do?.

You may ask the Judge for a "PR" bond. It is up to the judge but it really depends upon his criminal record, ties to the community, job situation, facts of the case, the prosecutor's reccomendation and the reccomendation of the probation department / pre trial services, if any. Ultimately, you do not "press charges" or not. Once arrested, the state decides whehter to go forward with the case becuase it is the state who is technically the party to the lawsuit. Depending upon the D, the office policies and the facts of the case, they may or may not take your wishes into consideration in making that decision.