Necessary to file QDRO for a short marriage?
I was going to do a cut and dry dissolution- he take his, I take mine kind of ordeal and not mess with the money aspect. However, I'm starting to rethink that considering I was unemployed while going to school for over a year without ever being added to his checking or savings account. I basically got an allowance from him monthly and never have touched any of his accounts as he is very greedy with his money. Therefore I'm starting to rethink if I should go ahead and file a QDRO on his 401k. He had other investments throughout our marriage but I was going to settle with just his retirement. We have only been married for a year in a half.
