How do I argue verbal abuse in child support case without being required to turn over my mental health records?

I was hospitalized multiple times last year for MDD and GAD which was brought on by fears of losing my spouse and years of verbal abuse from her and codependence on my part. Her lawyer has filed a request for response where she has asked for ALL records of my doctors, hospital and therapists. Under 90.503, she cannot get these unless she proved suicide attempt- never attempted but did have suicidal ideation and was voluntarily committed to prevent baker act- orI use it as argument. I really do not want to be embarrassed by having my medical history drug out in court to make me look like an unfit parent. How do I argue that she has no relationship with her oldest son because she is so verbally abusive without opening my records?