From your question, it appears that the will is lost and the attorney can't find the original. There is an exception in North Carolina in certain circumstances where a will has been lost and destroyed. It is called an Application for Probate of Lost or Destroyed Will. If the attorney held the original and can't find it I think that would qualify for this exception, if the attorney will state that this is what happened, Hopefully he or she will file this application for you. It needs to be accompanied by a death certificate and a conformed copy, as well as a valid excuse. Affidavits of the subscribing witnesses will also have to be filed.
Since your will is also missing. I would ask the attorney to have you sign a new will so that your family doesn't have to go through this same mess when you pass away.
Also, I think you know this now, but the rest of our readers should take this situation as a valuable lesson. Keep your original documents in your care and keep them safe. Also, make sure that your family knows where to find them when you are gone.
Best luck with this process.
Very truly yours,
Cheryl David
Law Offices of Cheryl David
5606 W. Friendly Avenue
Greensboro, NC 27410
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