Can my wife keep me out of the house cause she wants a divorce. She says she will be to stressed if I am there?

No, she may not keep you out of the house, short of there being a restraining order entered. That does not seem to be the case here. Therefore, you both have equal rights to remain in the home.

Without a Domestic Violence Restraining Order, you cannot be required to stay out of the home. You should consult with an experienced family law attorney in your area for advice on how to proceed and what rights you have.

You are both entitled to remain in the home while a divorce is pending. In fact, most couples live together while the divorce is on going because it is cost prohibitive to maintain 2 separate residences. You should retain counsel immediately who can communicate with your wife regarding this and other issues which will hopefully make for smooth divorce proceedings.

Absent the entry of a domestic violence restraining order, she cannot kept you out.