Ex-wife Filed VAWA against me.

Since I can't win under VAWA policy but need help to pursuit legal action on her. Over three years she has threaten me if i do not give her full financial support I will go to jail and the government will hunt. After she filed VAWA she lived with me for three years causing lots of financial burden on my part becuase i was terrified. Then she divorced me so that VAWA will believe her that we are not together. She moved out and then come back asking for help because she got fired in the job. She followed from AZ, NV and now here in Los Angeles. She email that i am obligated to provide financial support to her even we are divorced. This causing lots of headache of my part and found out that i am not obligated to support her, Can I suit her and recovered my money. Jonathan 818-294-9552