Wise for for same-sex New Yorkers to marry outside of New York now?
We are a same-sex couple living in New York, where marriage is not yet legal. We want to get married now in a nearby State, and so if NY legalizes same-sex marriage we will receive the State offered rights that are afforded to married couples. However we wonder about the risk of marrying outside of NY if there is a subsequent repeal in NY of same-sex marriage, akin to California's Proposition 8. We understand that for Prop 8, CA marriages conducted during the dates it was legal there (June-Nov 2008) are still deemed to be legal marriages in CA, but we do not know if CA recognizes same-sex marriages conducted outside of the State before Nov. 2008. We fear a legalization then repeal in NY, and wonder if it is wise to marry outside of NY now, if a repeal would revoke out rights? Thanks.
