My id was stolen and i know who stole it and who she gave it to to use it was then used in a traffic violation in a diff state

You need to contact an attorney, and You need to contact the police about who stole your identity.

Find an attorney to defend you on the ticket and contact the police to investigate the theft.

Contact the police where it was stolen and make a report. Then contact the police where the ID was used and report it stolen as well. If the traffic violation was recent, it's possible the officer may still recall the person who used your identity and may be able to make a photo comparison. Ultimately you may need the assistance of a defense attorney in the other state to help you. Start by making phone calls and doing phone consultations. An initial consultation should be free. Good luck.